The blog linked below made me think. The title should be pretty obvious in terms of what the blog is about (though there is so much more to it and you really should go read it damnit), so I’m not going to re-tell what she writes, but I will share what it made me think about.
There was a time in my life where I had no trouble finding people to go online and play with, and it really didn’t matter what time or day. It was never too hard to find someone. About eight years ago though it became more and more difficult. My traditional stomping grounds became flooded with bots or neanderthal jack-holes. I don’t have the time or patience for it. Eventually I met some cool people to play with online through myspace but even that has dwindled with time (though I am really good friends with some of those myspace people). Now I find myself willing and ready to play, but the people I want to play with are never around or in the mood.
I’ve found some sites for meeting adults online, but most of them are pay. The chat rooms I used to go to are so swamped with bots that it is not worth the time. I love showing off on cam or playing with another. Hell, I love some good old fashioned sexchat, but it just doesn’t seem to be in the works any more.
I’ll admit it…I’ve become pretty bitter about this.